somni wrote: ↑09 Dec 2025 17:50 pm
Old_Goat wrote: ↑09 Dec 2025 12:00 pm
somni wrote: ↑09 Dec 2025 10:54 am
MiamiLaw wrote: ↑08 Dec 2025 23:01 pm
dhsux wrote: ↑08 Dec 2025 17:52 pm
I don't mean to point any one out here.
The folks on this board who claim some kind of supreme hockey knowledge and it then usurps common decency and or respect for others opinions on this board is extremely short sighted for a public fan forum.
There's all kinds of people and walks of life and all kinds of hockey knowledge posters here amongst us folks.
I get the one up man ship from the "experts" and the fun of it for them but for many here we are just fans trying to learn and give honest opinions from a non expert point of view and trying to have some fun doing it and occasionally being.....right.
In 16 years here I've learned a ton about hockey and I am grateful for that. At the same time, I like to think I've passed some of my own insights onto others as well. And for 99% of the time if I offend some one in the course of communication I end up feeling bad about it.
Maybe this happened here.
Dude a lot of people here have played in, watched, coached, attended and/or reffed tens of thousands of games in the aggregate. There is a lot of knowledge in that.
Most of the regulars have seen almost every minute of a lot of the Blues player’s NHL careers. We’re as knowledgeable about at least that as any scout honestly. We’ve seen them more.
No matter what, and this place has ups and downs, I love talking Blues hockey here. I’ve been here since before it was called stltoday.
I can’t even remember the old name. I literally grew up on this forum.
It was called postnet. I know this because I joined in 1997-ish as northwest dave. It was when I moved out of St. Louis and it kept me connected to the team.
It's amazing to think about now.
Yes. I'm proud to say that my daughter was one of the developers of Postnet as just a HIGH SCHOOL student intern! The Post Dispatch reached out to various high schools and asked for recommendations of a few kids to come in assist with this new application technology. She is by no means a computer programmer techie type, but she possessed other skills which eventually affected her college and academic degree, and eventually rocketed her to a very globally reponsible management position in a globally recognized top company. Our first internet access and email address was via the Postnet dialup and ISP. She is not quite the hockey fan as I, but she couldn't help but have to become one nevertheless. So, she had worked on the first Hockey Chatroom at the site.
Please forgive me for indulging in how proud I am of her. Hopefully you parents in the forum understand. I would just read the Blues Forum until late in 2024, until I went ahead and created a login and participate. I try to control myself. I fail sometimes. I try not to and probably have never started "it," but it's my nature to finish it. And I only know one way to take that on.
A lot of very sagacious posters on here, whom I appreciate learning from!
That's incredible. What a world.
And you should be proud. I have a 14 year old daughter...so I understand completely.
Well my unsolicited advice for you Dad: Don't underestimate the power of encouragement. And I do not mean just from you and her Mom. I mean what a difference a great school teacher, or volunteer youth sports coach, or even an adult neighbor can make. Those whom take a bit of an interest, engage in a bit of conversation about what the kid is doing, and gives them some solid points and reinforcement of what good they may be doing. That does not mean giving everybody a Gold Star, but just a bit of individual recognition that they can achieve...and most importantly, giving them a responsibility and letting THEM do it, while for sure being available to answer questions or some helpful hints if needed.
We can all be that person for a kid. It does not take much. But knowing their name and asking how/what they are doing in their hobby, or school assignment and just letting them talk and be heard is powerful stuff.
If you think about it, you forever remember your great teachers, coaches, etc...and you remember the bad ones too, and why. The rest you probably do not remember. Your daughter can learn from both the great & bad types what to do, or what not to do. Most people want or like to be remembered. And I assume for good.
Your daughter will do great.