Bader and the crazy fan

[11WSChamps]

Two scenarios:

1. Give the ball to the lady.
2. Keep the ball and tell the lady to take a hike.


The issue isn’t which one you choose. The issue is that #1 is somehow a sus.

He’s not. In front of his son, he took the high road. And wouldn’t you know it, the man and his son were rewarded big time.

But even if they weren’t rewarded, in life, you have to choose your battles.

It was just a ball.

And if you don't take care of the little details you'll never handle the big ones.

Not true.

The secret is knowing which battles to fight, while keeping your eye on the bigger picture.

No it is true.

The secret is knowing how to fight them.

None of us know what another's personal experience has been in previous encounters.

IN relationships with family or anything else you address them you don't ignore them.

You totally address stuff with family….when it’s important.

I’ve seen the most successful ppl I’ve ever worked with play the long game.

If you feel the need to address every perceived slight or get consumed with someone getting their comeuppance, that’s a sign of emotional immaturity.

What you fail to understand is you aren't the arbiter over anyone and how I or someone else handles a situation when it differs from you doesn't somehow make you "emotionally mature".

This wasn't a "perceived slight" this was bad manners by an adult with a child which strangely enough isn't hers.

If you or someone else wants to enable bad manners with your child that's your choice. Its my choice to show my child that having a temper tantrum isn't a conduit to getting whatever you want.

It doesn't make someone "emotionally immature".

It’s not your job to police bad manners, and if the lady was throwing a temper tantrum that nothing to do with your kid, you’d stand there and watch her. It’s BECAUSE it’s your kid you’d feel the need to intervene. By doing so, you’re teaching your kid that the way to handle someone acting rudely to you is to escalate and exacerbate the problem, not walk away and diffuse.

If that dad had done so, with the way she was acting, it very likely ends in a physical altercation. Not worth it.

Wrong again.

I knew right from the start you were intellectually stunted.

And you've never posted anything here to prove otherwise.

Let it go and quit making a complete (donkey) of yourself.

Getting triggered again?

Believe it or not, your viewpoint is actually the minority around here on this one. You’ll be OK.

Keep trolling (donkey)(pit).

Its the one true thing in your life.

There's plenty of help for the mentally stunted.

For God's sake get some.

Lots of name-calling here. Sort of an adult temper tantrum, if you will. Apparently I’m supposed to escalate the situation, but I’d rather just let the baby have his bottle.

Enjoy your night.

Awe the poor fake outraged playing the victim game who's exponentially had more posts in this thread than me, falsely accused another poster of being some kind of woman beater thus making a complete (donkey) of himself which is par for the course for him.

The tantrum is all yours false virtue seeker.

Don't forget to put up your "man bun" and do your nails before beddy bye.

[ilcubuffs]

Bader hits HR in the 4th inning. 14th on season - who would have thunk??

Marlins rep shows up in 6th inning. There is no indication that an usher or security person talked to the dad or family. Obviously Marlins became aware of situation via all the social posting. It seems as though when the young man is given his "bag of goody's" there might have been scoreboard viewing which added to fans positive response.

Why did the Marlins not talk to the crazy lady? Escort her out? etc. MLB policy states that "Disruptive & Abusive Behavior:
This includes obscene gestures, foul or abusive language, and any behavior that interferes with other guests' ability to enjoy the game." Immediate removed from stadium.

The moment the crazy lady touched the Dad the fist time she should have been escorted out.