Likely, if your answer to a minor incident is to escalate it in an unnecessarily macho, immature fashion.Absolut wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:12 pmOk I’ll play. Do I?desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:12 pm You can certainly tell who in this thread has an ex-wife and who doesn’t.
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That works until it doesn’t.WLTFE wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:30 pm+111WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:26 pmExactly.Bully4you wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 10:48 amShe starts pushing me and I escort her away from my family and turn her over to security.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 10:45 amAnd then what? She isn’t going to stop. She starts pushing and shoving? He can’t and shouldn’t hit back, especially not in public. It’s a no-win situation for him. If he does what he did, the alpha-male keyboard warriors call him a [redacted]. If he escalates, it gets MUCH worse for him.
Not everything in life is an opportunity to show off your machismo. Sometimes the winning move is not to engage.
Not gonna let a person win under those circumstances.
I would have told her to kiss my (donkey) and move along .
Believe me she would have gotten the message.
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+1 or he has a wife whom cringes every time he acts out in public and embarrasses her to prove to the world he’s a mandesertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:35 pmLikely, if your answer to a minor incident is to escalate it in an unnecessarily macho, immature fashion.Absolut wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:12 pmOk I’ll play. Do I?desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:12 pm You can certainly tell who in this thread has an ex-wife and who doesn’t.
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Nope. Married one time. 2 kids. Still going.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:35 pmLikely, if your answer to a minor incident is to escalate it in an unnecessarily macho, immature fashion.Absolut wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:12 pmOk I’ll play. Do I?desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:12 pm You can certainly tell who in this thread has an ex-wife and who doesn’t.
Judgmental much? Me saying I’m not allowing a crazy Karen to take something from my kid is “macho and immature”.
Got kids yourself?
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You know what doesn't work is being the forum's judgemental tool.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:36 pmThat works until it doesn’t.WLTFE wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:30 pm+111WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:26 pmExactly.Bully4you wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 10:48 amShe starts pushing me and I escort her away from my family and turn her over to security.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 10:45 amAnd then what? She isn’t going to stop. She starts pushing and shoving? He can’t and shouldn’t hit back, especially not in public. It’s a no-win situation for him. If he does what he did, the alpha-male keyboard warriors call him a [redacted]. If he escalates, it gets MUCH worse for him.
Not everything in life is an opportunity to show off your machismo. Sometimes the winning move is not to engage.
Not gonna let a person win under those circumstances.
I would have told her to kiss my (donkey) and move along .
Believe me she would have gotten the message.
What gives you the right to be the arbiter of anything with anyone here and then make assumptions of anybody who disagrees?
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The First Amendment, I suppose. Besides, this place needs a little diversity of thought.11WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:40 pmYou know what doesn't work is being the forum's judgemental tool.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:36 pmThat works until it doesn’t.WLTFE wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:30 pm+111WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:26 pmExactly.Bully4you wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 10:48 amShe starts pushing me and I escort her away from my family and turn her over to security.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 10:45 amAnd then what? She isn’t going to stop. She starts pushing and shoving? He can’t and shouldn’t hit back, especially not in public. It’s a no-win situation for him. If he does what he did, the alpha-male keyboard warriors call him a [redacted]. If he escalates, it gets MUCH worse for him.
Not everything in life is an opportunity to show off your machismo. Sometimes the winning move is not to engage.
Not gonna let a person win under those circumstances.
I would have told her to kiss my (donkey) and move along .
Believe me she would have gotten the message.
What gives you the right to be the arbiter of anything with anyone here and then make assumptions of anybody who disagrees?
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To the contrary. My wife and I have been together for two decades. We do work with domestic violence survivors and donate time and work to shelters and foundations designed to help kids and women survivors.Ozziesfan41 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:39 pm+1 or he has a wife whom cringes every time he acts out in public and embarrasses her to prove to the world he’s a mandesertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:35 pmLikely, if your answer to a minor incident is to escalate it in an unnecessarily macho, immature fashion.Absolut wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:12 pmOk I’ll play. Do I?desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:12 pm You can certainly tell who in this thread has an ex-wife and who doesn’t.
But sure. Because I would not give away a baseball to an entitled person must be a monster.
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So the judgmental tools who say he was weak for not also acting like a nut like the woman did are okay but the ones who disagree with that are judgmental tools? lol okay11WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:40 pmYou know what doesn't work is being the forum's judgemental tool.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:36 pmThat works until it doesn’t.WLTFE wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:30 pm+111WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:26 pmExactly.Bully4you wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 10:48 amShe starts pushing me and I escort her away from my family and turn her over to security.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 10:45 amAnd then what? She isn’t going to stop. She starts pushing and shoving? He can’t and shouldn’t hit back, especially not in public. It’s a no-win situation for him. If he does what he did, the alpha-male keyboard warriors call him a [redacted]. If he escalates, it gets MUCH worse for him.
Not everything in life is an opportunity to show off your machismo. Sometimes the winning move is not to engage.
Not gonna let a person win under those circumstances.
I would have told her to kiss my (donkey) and move along .
Believe me she would have gotten the message.
What gives you the right to be the arbiter of anything with anyone here and then make assumptions of anybody who disagrees?
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Find here where I said anything about his behavior. I only stated what I would do.Ozziesfan41 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:42 pmSo the judgmental tools who say he was weak for not also acting like a nut like the woman did are okay but the ones who disagree with that are judgmental tools?11WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:40 pmYou know what doesn't work is being the forum's judgemental tool.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:36 pmThat works until it doesn’t.WLTFE wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:30 pm+111WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:26 pmExactly.Bully4you wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 10:48 amShe starts pushing me and I escort her away from my family and turn her over to security.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 10:45 amAnd then what? She isn’t going to stop. She starts pushing and shoving? He can’t and shouldn’t hit back, especially not in public. It’s a no-win situation for him. If he does what he did, the alpha-male keyboard warriors call him a [redacted]. If he escalates, it gets MUCH worse for him.
Not everything in life is an opportunity to show off your machismo. Sometimes the winning move is not to engage.
Not gonna let a person win under those circumstances.
I would have told her to kiss my (donkey) and move along .
Believe me she would have gotten the message.
What gives you the right to be the arbiter of anything with anyone here and then make assumptions of anybody who disagrees?
You and your boy are the ones doing the judging.
Grow up.
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Ok.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:42 pmThe First Amendment, I suppose. Besides, this place needs a little diversity of thought.11WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:40 pmYou know what doesn't work is being the forum's judgemental tool.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:36 pmThat works until it doesn’t.WLTFE wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:30 pm+111WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:26 pmExactly.Bully4you wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 10:48 amShe starts pushing me and I escort her away from my family and turn her over to security.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 10:45 amAnd then what? She isn’t going to stop. She starts pushing and shoving? He can’t and shouldn’t hit back, especially not in public. It’s a no-win situation for him. If he does what he did, the alpha-male keyboard warriors call him a [redacted]. If he escalates, it gets MUCH worse for him.
Not everything in life is an opportunity to show off your machismo. Sometimes the winning move is not to engage.
Not gonna let a person win under those circumstances.
I would have told her to kiss my (donkey) and move along .
Believe me she would have gotten the message.
What gives you the right to be the arbiter of anything with anyone here and then make assumptions of anybody who disagrees?
Well in honor of the First Amendment FOff.
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But aren’t you judging me for judging them?11WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:44 pmFind here where I said anything about his behavior. I only stated what I would do.Ozziesfan41 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:42 pmSo the judgmental tools who say he was weak for not also acting like a nut like the woman did are okay but the ones who disagree with that are judgmental tools?11WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:40 pmYou know what doesn't work is being the forum's judgemental tool.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:36 pmThat works until it doesn’t.WLTFE wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:30 pm+111WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:26 pmExactly.Bully4you wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 10:48 amShe starts pushing me and I escort her away from my family and turn her over to security.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 10:45 amAnd then what? She isn’t going to stop. She starts pushing and shoving? He can’t and shouldn’t hit back, especially not in public. It’s a no-win situation for him. If he does what he did, the alpha-male keyboard warriors call him a [redacted]. If he escalates, it gets MUCH worse for him.
Not everything in life is an opportunity to show off your machismo. Sometimes the winning move is not to engage.
Not gonna let a person win under those circumstances.
I would have told her to kiss my (donkey) and move along .
Believe me she would have gotten the message.
What gives you the right to be the arbiter of anything with anyone here and then make assumptions of anybody who disagrees?
You and your boy are the ones doing the judging.
Grow up.
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I was disagreeing with the ones who were judging the dad for doing the very very very smart thing and the one who thinks it would be right to beat a woman over a baseball. Grow up11WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:44 pmFind here where I said anything about his behavior. I only stated what I would do.Ozziesfan41 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:42 pmSo the judgmental tools who say he was weak for not also acting like a nut like the woman did are okay but the ones who disagree with that are judgmental tools?11WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:40 pmYou know what doesn't work is being the forum's judgemental tool.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:36 pmThat works until it doesn’t.WLTFE wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:30 pm+111WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:26 pmExactly.Bully4you wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 10:48 amShe starts pushing me and I escort her away from my family and turn her over to security.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 10:45 amAnd then what? She isn’t going to stop. She starts pushing and shoving? He can’t and shouldn’t hit back, especially not in public. It’s a no-win situation for him. If he does what he did, the alpha-male keyboard warriors call him a [redacted]. If he escalates, it gets MUCH worse for him.
Not everything in life is an opportunity to show off your machismo. Sometimes the winning move is not to engage.
Not gonna let a person win under those circumstances.
I would have told her to kiss my (donkey) and move along .
Believe me she would have gotten the message.
What gives you the right to be the arbiter of anything with anyone here and then make assumptions of anybody who disagrees?
You and your boy are the ones doing the judging.
Grow up.
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I apologize for triggering you.11WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:46 pmOk.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:42 pmThe First Amendment, I suppose. Besides, this place needs a little diversity of thought.11WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:40 pmYou know what doesn't work is being the forum's judgemental tool.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:36 pmThat works until it doesn’t.WLTFE wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:30 pm+111WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:26 pmExactly.Bully4you wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 10:48 amShe starts pushing me and I escort her away from my family and turn her over to security.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 10:45 amAnd then what? She isn’t going to stop. She starts pushing and shoving? He can’t and shouldn’t hit back, especially not in public. It’s a no-win situation for him. If he does what he did, the alpha-male keyboard warriors call him a [redacted]. If he escalates, it gets MUCH worse for him.
Not everything in life is an opportunity to show off your machismo. Sometimes the winning move is not to engage.
Not gonna let a person win under those circumstances.
I would have told her to kiss my (donkey) and move along .
Believe me she would have gotten the message.
What gives you the right to be the arbiter of anything with anyone here and then make assumptions of anybody who disagrees?
Well in honor of the First Amendment FOff.
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That's the MO of these goons.Absolut wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:42 pmTo the contrary. My wife and I have been together for two decades. We do work with domestic violence survivors and donate time and work to shelters and foundations designed to help kids and women survivors.Ozziesfan41 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:39 pm+1 or he has a wife whom cringes every time he acts out in public and embarrasses her to prove to the world he’s a mandesertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:35 pmLikely, if your answer to a minor incident is to escalate it in an unnecessarily macho, immature fashion.Absolut wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:12 pmOk I’ll play. Do I?desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:12 pm You can certainly tell who in this thread has an ex-wife and who doesn’t.
But sure. Because I would not give away a baseball to an entitled person must be a monster.
Paint all those who disagree with the same brush.
The gloves are off.
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See? People around here just can’t WAIT to escalate a situation, no matter how unnecessary it might be.11WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:50 pmThat's the MO of these goons.Absolut wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:42 pmTo the contrary. My wife and I have been together for two decades. We do work with domestic violence survivors and donate time and work to shelters and foundations designed to help kids and women survivors.Ozziesfan41 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:39 pm+1 or he has a wife whom cringes every time he acts out in public and embarrasses her to prove to the world he’s a mandesertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:35 pmLikely, if your answer to a minor incident is to escalate it in an unnecessarily macho, immature fashion.Absolut wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:12 pmOk I’ll play. Do I?desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:12 pm You can certainly tell who in this thread has an ex-wife and who doesn’t.
But sure. Because I would not give away a baseball to an entitled person must be a monster.
Paint all those who disagree with the same brush.
The gloves are off.
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Re: Bader and the crazy fan
Predictable.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:49 pmI apologize for triggering you.11WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:46 pmOk.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:42 pmThe First Amendment, I suppose. Besides, this place needs a little diversity of thought.11WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:40 pmYou know what doesn't work is being the forum's judgemental tool.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:36 pmThat works until it doesn’t.WLTFE wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:30 pm+111WSChamps wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 19:26 pmExactly.Bully4you wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 10:48 amShe starts pushing me and I escort her away from my family and turn her over to security.desertrat23 wrote: ↑06 Sep 2025 10:45 amAnd then what? She isn’t going to stop. She starts pushing and shoving? He can’t and shouldn’t hit back, especially not in public. It’s a no-win situation for him. If he does what he did, the alpha-male keyboard warriors call him a [redacted]. If he escalates, it gets MUCH worse for him.
Not everything in life is an opportunity to show off your machismo. Sometimes the winning move is not to engage.
Not gonna let a person win under those circumstances.
I would have told her to kiss my (donkey) and move along .
Believe me she would have gotten the message.
What gives you the right to be the arbiter of anything with anyone here and then make assumptions of anybody who disagrees?
Well in honor of the First Amendment FOff.
You got the verbage of the fake outrage virtuous down to a T.
All the triggering was obviously done by you given the number of posts you've had in the thread.
And if you're "man enough" the apology you owe is to another poster.
Man up if possible.