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Re: Bader and the crazy fan

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Absolut wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:12 pm
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:12 pm You can certainly tell who in this thread has an ex-wife and who doesn’t.
Ok I’ll play. Do I?
Likely, if your answer to a minor incident is to escalate it in an unnecessarily macho, immature fashion.
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Re: Bader and the crazy fan

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WLTFE wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:30 pm
11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:26 pm
Bully4you wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:48 am
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:45 am
Bully4you wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:40 am Crazy feminist.
Just ignore and keep the ball.
Tell her in a polite way to get drilled and quit acting like a child.
Agree with Melville on this.
He never should have relinquished that ball.
And then what? She isn’t going to stop. She starts pushing and shoving? He can’t and shouldn’t hit back, especially not in public. It’s a no-win situation for him. If he does what he did, the alpha-male keyboard warriors call him a [redacted]. If he escalates, it gets MUCH worse for him.

Not everything in life is an opportunity to show off your machismo. Sometimes the winning move is not to engage.
She starts pushing me and I escort her away from my family and turn her over to security.
Not gonna let a person win under those circumstances.
Exactly.

I would have told her to kiss my (donkey) and move along .

Believe me she would have gotten the message.
+1
That works until it doesn’t.
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Re: Bader and the crazy fan

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desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:35 pm
Absolut wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:12 pm
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:12 pm You can certainly tell who in this thread has an ex-wife and who doesn’t.
Ok I’ll play. Do I?
Likely, if your answer to a minor incident is to escalate it in an unnecessarily macho, immature fashion.
+1 or he has a wife whom cringes every time he acts out in public and embarrasses her to prove to the world he’s a man
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Re: Bader and the crazy fan

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desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:35 pm
Absolut wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:12 pm
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:12 pm You can certainly tell who in this thread has an ex-wife and who doesn’t.
Ok I’ll play. Do I?
Likely, if your answer to a minor incident is to escalate it in an unnecessarily macho, immature fashion.
Nope. Married one time. 2 kids. Still going.

Judgmental much? Me saying I’m not allowing a crazy Karen to take something from my kid is “macho and immature”.

Got kids yourself?
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Re: Bader and the crazy fan

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desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:36 pm
WLTFE wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:30 pm
11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:26 pm
Bully4you wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:48 am
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:45 am
Bully4you wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:40 am Crazy feminist.
Just ignore and keep the ball.
Tell her in a polite way to get drilled and quit acting like a child.
Agree with Melville on this.
He never should have relinquished that ball.
And then what? She isn’t going to stop. She starts pushing and shoving? He can’t and shouldn’t hit back, especially not in public. It’s a no-win situation for him. If he does what he did, the alpha-male keyboard warriors call him a [redacted]. If he escalates, it gets MUCH worse for him.

Not everything in life is an opportunity to show off your machismo. Sometimes the winning move is not to engage.
She starts pushing me and I escort her away from my family and turn her over to security.
Not gonna let a person win under those circumstances.
Exactly.

I would have told her to kiss my (donkey) and move along .

Believe me she would have gotten the message.
+1
That works until it doesn’t.
You know what doesn't work is being the forum's judgemental tool.

What gives you the right to be the arbiter of anything with anyone here and then make assumptions of anybody who disagrees?
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Re: Bader and the crazy fan

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11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:40 pm
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:36 pm
WLTFE wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:30 pm
11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:26 pm
Bully4you wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:48 am
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:45 am
Bully4you wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:40 am Crazy feminist.
Just ignore and keep the ball.
Tell her in a polite way to get drilled and quit acting like a child.
Agree with Melville on this.
He never should have relinquished that ball.
And then what? She isn’t going to stop. She starts pushing and shoving? He can’t and shouldn’t hit back, especially not in public. It’s a no-win situation for him. If he does what he did, the alpha-male keyboard warriors call him a [redacted]. If he escalates, it gets MUCH worse for him.

Not everything in life is an opportunity to show off your machismo. Sometimes the winning move is not to engage.
She starts pushing me and I escort her away from my family and turn her over to security.
Not gonna let a person win under those circumstances.
Exactly.

I would have told her to kiss my (donkey) and move along .

Believe me she would have gotten the message.
+1
That works until it doesn’t.
You know what doesn't work is being the forum's judgemental tool.

What gives you the right to be the arbiter of anything with anyone here and then make assumptions of anybody who disagrees?
The First Amendment, I suppose. Besides, this place needs a little diversity of thought.
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Re: Bader and the crazy fan

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Ozziesfan41 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:39 pm
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:35 pm
Absolut wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:12 pm
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:12 pm You can certainly tell who in this thread has an ex-wife and who doesn’t.
Ok I’ll play. Do I?
Likely, if your answer to a minor incident is to escalate it in an unnecessarily macho, immature fashion.
+1 or he has a wife whom cringes every time he acts out in public and embarrasses her to prove to the world he’s a man
To the contrary. My wife and I have been together for two decades. We do work with domestic violence survivors and donate time and work to shelters and foundations designed to help kids and women survivors.

But sure. Because I would not give away a baseball to an entitled person must be a monster.
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Re: Bader and the crazy fan

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11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:40 pm
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:36 pm
WLTFE wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:30 pm
11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:26 pm
Bully4you wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:48 am
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:45 am
Bully4you wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:40 am Crazy feminist.
Just ignore and keep the ball.
Tell her in a polite way to get drilled and quit acting like a child.
Agree with Melville on this.
He never should have relinquished that ball.
And then what? She isn’t going to stop. She starts pushing and shoving? He can’t and shouldn’t hit back, especially not in public. It’s a no-win situation for him. If he does what he did, the alpha-male keyboard warriors call him a [redacted]. If he escalates, it gets MUCH worse for him.

Not everything in life is an opportunity to show off your machismo. Sometimes the winning move is not to engage.
She starts pushing me and I escort her away from my family and turn her over to security.
Not gonna let a person win under those circumstances.
Exactly.

I would have told her to kiss my (donkey) and move along .

Believe me she would have gotten the message.
+1
That works until it doesn’t.
You know what doesn't work is being the forum's judgemental tool.

What gives you the right to be the arbiter of anything with anyone here and then make assumptions of anybody who disagrees?
So the judgmental tools who say he was weak for not also acting like a nut like the woman did are okay but the ones who disagree with that are judgmental tools? lol okay
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Re: Bader and the crazy fan

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Ozziesfan41 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:42 pm
11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:40 pm
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:36 pm
WLTFE wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:30 pm
11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:26 pm
Bully4you wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:48 am
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:45 am
Bully4you wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:40 am Crazy feminist.
Just ignore and keep the ball.
Tell her in a polite way to get drilled and quit acting like a child.
Agree with Melville on this.
He never should have relinquished that ball.
And then what? She isn’t going to stop. She starts pushing and shoving? He can’t and shouldn’t hit back, especially not in public. It’s a no-win situation for him. If he does what he did, the alpha-male keyboard warriors call him a [redacted]. If he escalates, it gets MUCH worse for him.

Not everything in life is an opportunity to show off your machismo. Sometimes the winning move is not to engage.
She starts pushing me and I escort her away from my family and turn her over to security.
Not gonna let a person win under those circumstances.
Exactly.

I would have told her to kiss my (donkey) and move along .

Believe me she would have gotten the message.
+1
That works until it doesn’t.
You know what doesn't work is being the forum's judgemental tool.

What gives you the right to be the arbiter of anything with anyone here and then make assumptions of anybody who disagrees?
So the judgmental tools who say he was weak for not also acting like a nut like the woman did are okay but the ones who disagree with that are judgmental tools?
Find here where I said anything about his behavior. I only stated what I would do.

You and your boy are the ones doing the judging.

Grow up.
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Re: Bader and the crazy fan

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desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:42 pm
11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:40 pm
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:36 pm
WLTFE wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:30 pm
11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:26 pm
Bully4you wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:48 am
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:45 am
Bully4you wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:40 am Crazy feminist.
Just ignore and keep the ball.
Tell her in a polite way to get drilled and quit acting like a child.
Agree with Melville on this.
He never should have relinquished that ball.
And then what? She isn’t going to stop. She starts pushing and shoving? He can’t and shouldn’t hit back, especially not in public. It’s a no-win situation for him. If he does what he did, the alpha-male keyboard warriors call him a [redacted]. If he escalates, it gets MUCH worse for him.

Not everything in life is an opportunity to show off your machismo. Sometimes the winning move is not to engage.
She starts pushing me and I escort her away from my family and turn her over to security.
Not gonna let a person win under those circumstances.
Exactly.

I would have told her to kiss my (donkey) and move along .

Believe me she would have gotten the message.
+1
That works until it doesn’t.
You know what doesn't work is being the forum's judgemental tool.

What gives you the right to be the arbiter of anything with anyone here and then make assumptions of anybody who disagrees?
The First Amendment, I suppose. Besides, this place needs a little diversity of thought.
Ok.

Well in honor of the First Amendment FOff.
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Re: Bader and the crazy fan

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11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:44 pm
Ozziesfan41 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:42 pm
11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:40 pm
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:36 pm
WLTFE wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:30 pm
11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:26 pm
Bully4you wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:48 am
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:45 am
Bully4you wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:40 am Crazy feminist.
Just ignore and keep the ball.
Tell her in a polite way to get drilled and quit acting like a child.
Agree with Melville on this.
He never should have relinquished that ball.
And then what? She isn’t going to stop. She starts pushing and shoving? He can’t and shouldn’t hit back, especially not in public. It’s a no-win situation for him. If he does what he did, the alpha-male keyboard warriors call him a [redacted]. If he escalates, it gets MUCH worse for him.

Not everything in life is an opportunity to show off your machismo. Sometimes the winning move is not to engage.
She starts pushing me and I escort her away from my family and turn her over to security.
Not gonna let a person win under those circumstances.
Exactly.

I would have told her to kiss my (donkey) and move along .

Believe me she would have gotten the message.
+1
That works until it doesn’t.
You know what doesn't work is being the forum's judgemental tool.

What gives you the right to be the arbiter of anything with anyone here and then make assumptions of anybody who disagrees?
So the judgmental tools who say he was weak for not also acting like a nut like the woman did are okay but the ones who disagree with that are judgmental tools?
Find here where I said anything about his behavior. I only stated what I would do.

You and your boy are the ones doing the judging.

Grow up.
But aren’t you judging me for judging them?
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Re: Bader and the crazy fan

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11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:44 pm
Ozziesfan41 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:42 pm
11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:40 pm
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:36 pm
WLTFE wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:30 pm
11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:26 pm
Bully4you wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:48 am
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:45 am
Bully4you wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:40 am Crazy feminist.
Just ignore and keep the ball.
Tell her in a polite way to get drilled and quit acting like a child.
Agree with Melville on this.
He never should have relinquished that ball.
And then what? She isn’t going to stop. She starts pushing and shoving? He can’t and shouldn’t hit back, especially not in public. It’s a no-win situation for him. If he does what he did, the alpha-male keyboard warriors call him a [redacted]. If he escalates, it gets MUCH worse for him.

Not everything in life is an opportunity to show off your machismo. Sometimes the winning move is not to engage.
She starts pushing me and I escort her away from my family and turn her over to security.
Not gonna let a person win under those circumstances.
Exactly.

I would have told her to kiss my (donkey) and move along .

Believe me she would have gotten the message.
+1
That works until it doesn’t.
You know what doesn't work is being the forum's judgemental tool.

What gives you the right to be the arbiter of anything with anyone here and then make assumptions of anybody who disagrees?
So the judgmental tools who say he was weak for not also acting like a nut like the woman did are okay but the ones who disagree with that are judgmental tools?
Find here where I said anything about his behavior. I only stated what I would do.

You and your boy are the ones doing the judging.

Grow up.
I was disagreeing with the ones who were judging the dad for doing the very very very smart thing and the one who thinks it would be right to beat a woman over a baseball. Grow up
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Re: Bader and the crazy fan

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11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:46 pm
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:42 pm
11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:40 pm
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:36 pm
WLTFE wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:30 pm
11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:26 pm
Bully4you wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:48 am
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:45 am
Bully4you wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:40 am Crazy feminist.
Just ignore and keep the ball.
Tell her in a polite way to get drilled and quit acting like a child.
Agree with Melville on this.
He never should have relinquished that ball.
And then what? She isn’t going to stop. She starts pushing and shoving? He can’t and shouldn’t hit back, especially not in public. It’s a no-win situation for him. If he does what he did, the alpha-male keyboard warriors call him a [redacted]. If he escalates, it gets MUCH worse for him.

Not everything in life is an opportunity to show off your machismo. Sometimes the winning move is not to engage.
She starts pushing me and I escort her away from my family and turn her over to security.
Not gonna let a person win under those circumstances.
Exactly.

I would have told her to kiss my (donkey) and move along .

Believe me she would have gotten the message.
+1
That works until it doesn’t.
You know what doesn't work is being the forum's judgemental tool.

What gives you the right to be the arbiter of anything with anyone here and then make assumptions of anybody who disagrees?
The First Amendment, I suppose. Besides, this place needs a little diversity of thought.
Ok.

Well in honor of the First Amendment FOff.
I apologize for triggering you.
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Re: Bader and the crazy fan

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Absolut wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:42 pm
Ozziesfan41 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:39 pm
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:35 pm
Absolut wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:12 pm
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:12 pm You can certainly tell who in this thread has an ex-wife and who doesn’t.
Ok I’ll play. Do I?
Likely, if your answer to a minor incident is to escalate it in an unnecessarily macho, immature fashion.
+1 or he has a wife whom cringes every time he acts out in public and embarrasses her to prove to the world he’s a man
To the contrary. My wife and I have been together for two decades. We do work with domestic violence survivors and donate time and work to shelters and foundations designed to help kids and women survivors.

But sure. Because I would not give away a baseball to an entitled person must be a monster.
That's the MO of these goons.

Paint all those who disagree with the same brush.

The gloves are off.
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Re: Bader and the crazy fan

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11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:50 pm
Absolut wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:42 pm
Ozziesfan41 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:39 pm
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:35 pm
Absolut wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:12 pm
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:12 pm You can certainly tell who in this thread has an ex-wife and who doesn’t.
Ok I’ll play. Do I?
Likely, if your answer to a minor incident is to escalate it in an unnecessarily macho, immature fashion.
+1 or he has a wife whom cringes every time he acts out in public and embarrasses her to prove to the world he’s a man
To the contrary. My wife and I have been together for two decades. We do work with domestic violence survivors and donate time and work to shelters and foundations designed to help kids and women survivors.

But sure. Because I would not give away a baseball to an entitled person must be a monster.
That's the MO of these goons.

Paint all those who disagree with the same brush.

The gloves are off.
See? People around here just can’t WAIT to escalate a situation, no matter how unnecessary it might be.
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Re: Bader and the crazy fan

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desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:49 pm
11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:46 pm
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:42 pm
11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:40 pm
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:36 pm
WLTFE wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:30 pm
11WSChamps wrote: 06 Sep 2025 19:26 pm
Bully4you wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:48 am
desertrat23 wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:45 am
Bully4you wrote: 06 Sep 2025 10:40 am Crazy feminist.
Just ignore and keep the ball.
Tell her in a polite way to get drilled and quit acting like a child.
Agree with Melville on this.
He never should have relinquished that ball.
And then what? She isn’t going to stop. She starts pushing and shoving? He can’t and shouldn’t hit back, especially not in public. It’s a no-win situation for him. If he does what he did, the alpha-male keyboard warriors call him a [redacted]. If he escalates, it gets MUCH worse for him.

Not everything in life is an opportunity to show off your machismo. Sometimes the winning move is not to engage.
She starts pushing me and I escort her away from my family and turn her over to security.
Not gonna let a person win under those circumstances.
Exactly.

I would have told her to kiss my (donkey) and move along .

Believe me she would have gotten the message.
+1
That works until it doesn’t.
You know what doesn't work is being the forum's judgemental tool.

What gives you the right to be the arbiter of anything with anyone here and then make assumptions of anybody who disagrees?
The First Amendment, I suppose. Besides, this place needs a little diversity of thought.
Ok.

Well in honor of the First Amendment FOff.
I apologize for triggering you.
Predictable.

You got the verbage of the fake outrage virtuous down to a T.

All the triggering was obviously done by you given the number of posts you've had in the thread.

And if you're "man enough" the apology you owe is to another poster.

Man up if possible.
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