I appreciate the common sense, Old_Goat.Old_Goat wrote: ↑25 Jul 2026 09:47 amThank you so much!! Extremely helpful information.MTblue wrote: ↑21 Jul 2026 20:01 pm I created an account for this post, I’ve been a guest here for years/early 2000’s and thought this was a good place to start. I had rotator cuff surgery on my right shoulder in 2017. I had a full thickness tear and significant partial tears in 3 of the 4 ligaments. The cartilage in the socket was also torn. No impact on the bicep tendon for me. I also had numerous bone spurs causing progressive damage. It was a progressive injury from work and from playing/coaching recreational hockey. Combined and it took about 12 months for the final full tear to occur. Once that happened, I couldn’t lift my hand above my waist. Surgery was my only option to fix it.
Successful surgery in every way possible. Titanium woven into the full and partial tears. Grateful for the success. But it is a brutal recovery that absolutely involves lots of pain and incurable discomfort. 8 months from surgery until I could return to work. I learned that the physical therapist you work with post surgery is just as important as the orthopedic doctor who did the surgery. Recovery from surgery involves consistent and grinding efforts, or it won’t heal. Having someone to work with that understands the healing process makes it easier to manage.
I’m 8 years out from that surgery and have full range of motion and zero pain. I’m reluctant to do things that involve acceleration of the arm (throwing a baseball, bowling, rock skipping…) because I can get sore in the tendons immediately. But for everything else, it works great. Weight training, golf, skiing, backpacking, making the bed, putting on a shirt, lifting something overhead; are all done without pain.
There years later I began having issues in my left shoulder. Started PT early and built enough tendon and joint strength to avoid surgery. That side still gets impingement issues and pain if I sleep on it wrong. But I’m fully functional and would not do the surgery again unless I lost use of that shoulder.
Shoulders are no joke to get repaired. It is a rough healing process. I couldn’t lay horizontal for well over a month. You can do nothing with the surgical side. You are one armed for months. You are right to seek experiential opinions. I wish you the best of luck!
And for Harry Deals... I actually got referred to a physical therapist whom specializes in shoulders. My primary Doctor probably for insurance reasons advised the conservative protocol and made it clear that the post-surgery time and experience is last consideration. The therapist is excellent. It helped a lot. There is a tendency for all of us to become to busy, or I'm feeling good so we slack on the prescribed exercises...DON'T!
And for you and Harry York...the hardest part is coming to the realization that I've progressed beyond just growing up. It's hard, but as one of my older golf partner friends told me, "Old Goat, you look great, but you're going to be the healthiest guy in a wheelchair." I gave up playing ice-hockey over 30 years ago. I used to skate with a bunch of other former college guys, but even in a non-check environment, it became time. Heck, a couple of years ago I was helping my young grandchildren learn to skate during a public session, caught a rut while focusing on being bent over helping a little one and also trying to avoid a flailing non-skater...I went down hard, was fine, but determined it is no longer worth it. Being injured and unable to enjoy other things is not worth it. I'm not suggesting to go into couch potato mode, but a long and often brisk walk and some lighter weights, push-ups, pull-ups (those are a little disappointing just now with this shoulder), fewer beers and smaller portions will you keep you healthy and able to enjoy other sports and hobbies.
Good luck to all of us with these dam shoulders!
The "Healthiest guy in a wheelchair" resonates.
A big part of me (the teenage testosterone me) wants to go out like Conan the Barbarian, with a battle axe in one hand and a broadsword in the other, making the Reaper sweat and watching the (child born out of wedlock) flinch as I, grudgingly, give ground.
Staying fit and flexible is a gentler way out.
I must give my regrets to Dylan Thomas, I reckon.